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Take Care!

- Jessica

Thanks for the question. I replied through an article called, “Trapped in the ‘Friend Zone‘.” It may not be the answer you were looking for but I do hope in some way it was helpful. We all have heard those dreaded words, “I just want to be friends,” so you are not alone. The key is to avoid being defined by this “PC” phrase. Its what you do with it going forward that defines you. Learn from those relationships and use that knowledge in the present to help you have a more positive dating future.

Have FUN dating, be patient and avoid settling because that special someone will come into your life at THE set time.

I love this quote and thought it was appropriate:

“Don’t be reckless with other people’s hearts, and don’t put up with people that are reckless with yours.” - Kurt Vonnegut, Jr. Novelist

Sincerely,
Jessica

First I need to ask, have you felt this way about your past boyfriends or is this the first time? If this is the first time, then I would say your “gut feeling” is probably right. In my experience when I felt uneasy about something I was usually right. I may not have followed that instinct but looking back I should have.

My advice would be to hire a private investigator to give you the closure that you need. I would avoid confronting him because my instinct tells me he will deny it.

One of our experts, Tad Camp, can answer your questions concerning hiring a private investigator. If you are located in Tampa, FL you could hire him. If he is unavailable, ask for a reference.

An important thing to remember in all this is make sure you prepare yourself for the outcome whether it’s good or bad. If he is in fact NOT cheating, you may still need to dig deeper into your feelings to understand why you had this hunch. I would advise talking with him after all this concludes no matter what the outcome.

I hope this helps and good luck! I am confident you will work through this and come out a stronger individual.

Sincerely,
Jessica